martes, 11 de febrero de 2014

THE HAPPINESS

THE WAY TO HAPPINESS


I love writing about happiness! In writing this post I also dusted off some philosophers like Aristotle, Platon .. even Nietzsche jaja??, And most famous figures of our time, as Dalai Lama, Gandhi or Blessed Teresa of Calcutta .. which I love and happiness concept is quite what we consider today away.




For example, I love when asked the Dalai Lama what surprised him most of humanity, he answered "The Man." Because you lose your health to earn money, then lose their money to restore their health and by thinking anxiously about the future, enjoy the present. So do not live neither the present nor the future. And live as if they had never die .... And die as if they had never lived.


Also a more social level, we can find us and we must argue that in many ways, contentment, which can be defined as the state of being satisfied, is closely associated with the concept of happiness. In Positive Psychology social scientists study what contributes to living ‘the good life’, or what people need to do in order to having increased positive moods, pleasures, optimistic attitudes and outlook and overall satisfaction with their life.





So does overall satisfaction with your life mean that you are happy? I think this can give you a breath of happiness but not true happiness, it's like when you are very thirsty and you take a coke with ice, and what you usually say is "can be happier" then you probably are, but is not to be happy.. Is all right?  

They all come to the conclusion that happiness is in ourselves, Ok! Fine but how to achieve it? 



The Key is GIVING!.   The world is filled with people who have suffered from one misfortune or another. The only thing that sets one apart from the rest is the desire and the attempt to help others. People who reach out beyond their pain, out into the world in a trusting way – they are the ones who make a difference. Nietzsche said, ‘He who has a why to live for can bear with almost any how.’


Happiness is not found with the acquisition of stuff. Nor is it found in the list of past achievements. Personally I have changed my life radically, initially lived in the past, remember that great life .. I believe that to be happy we must look forward. It is the now and what we do with the now that makes all the difference.

If you wish to maintain a flow of happiness in your life, then make it your number one priority to be a giver. A giver of Love. A giver of your time. A giver of your talent. A giver of smiles. A giver of the word thank you. A giver of respect. Why Not? A giver of Money.


At every opportunity turn it into a moment to give.

I think parents have advantages in this, we are donating 100%, everyone here is look within and honestly think if you can give more to your husband and your children, with gladness because we want to be happy!




Even in your times of pain, choose to give. Selfish people, who hold on to everything that they have, live and die as lonely and bitter people.
Don’t delay living as you await the dreams arrival. Grab each moment and live it to the max

People who live unhappy lives have at some point decided to be unhappy. Don’t let it be you. Pour your life out and into the lives of others and when you are empty you will find that by some miraculous event, you will have been filled again so that you can go and give once more.




When Beltran died, my son, six months, was a great loss, but I saw the generosity of people, the support, the love of many. Also could not allow loss as something useless, whether we enjoyed what we had to make sense of what we lost. It makes sense right?



The end result will be the happiness that each and every one of us desires and deserves to have..




I hope you have not seemed too thick, by the way the next time, less deep! 


Now to be happy!
Lovely, 

Xox Ele