jueves, 14 de agosto de 2014

A FRIEND IS A TREASURE

Friendship is a link that gives us the ability to share experiences, knowledge and even means. The bonds of friendship and reciprocal power can not exist separately. The reality of friendship is dual. Implies the existence of at least two people. Friendship needs a partner to share, grow and discover each other (be) therein its values ​​and its shortcomings.



                                                       Sharing unique moments

A good friend does not cancel the other but that power is his partner and a facilitator of its many possibilities. Suffer when you suffer and rejoices when you're glad. It is not envious or arrogant or takes advantage of you

Friendship is based on mutual trust, where the goal is to help the other consequently himself.

Friendship is not imposed, nor program, like everything in life takes effort to get it and most importantly, provide the means to achieve and maintain.



                                                             Unconditional support

The friendship shown in the happy moments: the birth of a child, holding a job promotion, the housewarming. At other times friendship is embodied in a phone call to ask for advice or share a project or exchanging political, religious or existence ideas, or just the feeling we have that there is a person, even hundreds of Km ., to which we can resort only to talk and greet.


Our friend who we can call and let us advise, download, mourn, laugh and listen appears in all situations, both good and difficult times. Either way communicate with him.

                                In the good friendship, cries, laughs, supported.. All is possible

Friendship is a relationship of equals with a common characteristic. So teachers, parents, bosses can not be friends with their students, their children or their employees.

Friendship is not focused on the qualities of the other but rather in its very essence: how he is as a person, what qualities you have, what causes feelings.

Friendship does not create sympathy for the person but empathy: ability to understand and to share joys and sorrows.



                                Although we are far you're always .. you never lose anything.

When a friend tells her confidences, says its discretion and friendship requires correct subjective errors, in order to learn the objectivity of the facts.



The friend is someone who knows all about you and loves you as you are.
THE FRIENDSHIP covers loyalty and confidentiality. Achieve mutual sincerity.

Friends are those people who in difficult times is with you. The distinction for true and false friends is a common presence in the good times and the only real help in bad.



                                                   Good confidences and healthily

In friendship we seek unconditional support, we rely on business to better spend your sorrows, joys and divide duplicate anxieties half.

A proverb about friendship in which I agree is: "He who seeks a friend without faults will be left without friends."

A friend you call when we are going through an unsafe situation to advise us in their view, we ask for your opinion, so then we choose our own discretion, without prejudicing our relationship.

                                                         A goodbye is see you later

There are differences in the relationship of Friendship with the relationship of Love. Differences between known friends.

Sincere friendship is mutual, both people enrich that relationship to grow and learn from it.

Sincerity, generosity, understanding, mutual affection are pillars on which a mistad that consolidates over time is constructed. This is needed for a healthy and constructive friendship.

So in the saying "Friendship for interest, not last because it's not" Friends of convenience, in which certain people approach who can give them prestige, and there are other matters of truth in strengthening the friend.



In today's society prevailing materialism while is pragmatic, prevails among the people the feeling of friendship.

Friendship requires the faithful feeling of sincerity, no cheating, no demands communication, mutual self-giving, unselfish concern for the other, the boundless confidence, patience, respect for ideas, accept the way of life of friend , boundless confidence, the ability to listen, to forgive, the faithful friendship even be this far or have been a long time.




With friend there are two important components: trust and share from your projects, problems, concerns, dreams and failures. All this is learned from childhood to adulthood, through the young-teen that at this stage their social environment and supports friendship is a great release on many occasions in their mental and emotional turmoil, his personal maturation depends their integration into the adult world. It feels and is in dire need of "ally" of relating to other people your age and condition.

In friendship I dislike the lack of loyalty and betrayal. But unfortunately disloyalty exists, and this I have tested on my last years in Australia, here is something very strange happens, you come to a new country and start from scratch, thankfully there are many in the same situation, whether everyone is your friend until proven otherwise, considering that also do not have family, friends are an essential part of your life.




The problem with this is that not fit in with the whole world, this had never occurred to me not because I've always moved in the same environments, the positive is that I've met people with ideas, lifestyle very different from mine and that will be friends for life, with this is that I stay.

I think the people are wonderful, worth fighting, the circle you can have larger or smaller, according to the character you are, You have no friend having too many friends By Aristoteles but I prefer, God created us without frontiers, my goal is friendship with the world.

 I love to have people on my side, I think is one of the handicaps I have they met with the Australian Society are too reserved, but they say that once they are your friends are forever I still I keep trying .. Someday .. maybe. 

Meanwhile I'm enjoying every day with people I love and who loves me, and why not know more people who do not know but I would also like to be friends.




 With All my Love to All my Friends,

Xox Ele